Umtshato ngumthendeleko weCawa, lowo luphawu olubuthathaka nolusebenzayo lobabalo lukaThixo, nekuthi ngalo indoda nomfazi baseke ibutho elisondeleleneyo lobomi bomtshato nothando, oludalwe nguThixo nokulawulwa yimithetho yakhe, olusekwe kwimvisiswano yamaqabane, oko kukuthi, kwimvumelwano engenakuguqulwa.
Kubalulekile ukuba bobabini indoda nomfazi sikelela umanyano lwakho, ikhaya lakho, usapho lwakho. Kule meko, umfazi unokubhenela aze aqhelisele ukuthandaza ukuze umyeni wakhe angaweli kwimigibe yotshaba yaye ngalo lonke ixesha akhuselwe yintsikelelo kaThixo.
Ukuthandazela umyeni kuya kukuvumela ukuba ujabulele ukuzola noxolo ekhaya. Njengoko uyazi, umyeni uncedo olufanelekileyo oluye lwakhethwa ubomi kunye ukumthandazela ngomnye wemisebenzi ebalulekileyo enokwenziwa njengomfazi. Nanga amanye amacebiso anokukunceda ukhumbule ukuthandazela umyeni wakho yonke imihla:
- Into yokuqala omawuyenze xa uvuka Yiyeke imini yakho kuThixo. Kweso sivakalisi sincinci ungabandakanya isicelo sokukhusela umyeni.
- Enye ingcebiso eya kukunceda kakhulu thandaza nomyeni wakho. Ukongezelela ekusikhuseleni yonke imihla, uya kuwomeleza umtshato wakho ngokunqula uThixo nomyeni wakho.
- Siyancoma ube kwindawo ezolileyo apho unokuthandaza kamnandi ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
- ngexesha lokuthandaza kubalulekile ukuba uhlale ugxile kwinto ofuna ukuyiodola. Asikokuphinda-phinda amagama ngaphandle kokuyiva ngokusuka entliziyweni le nto uyicelayo.
- Njengenyathelo lokugqibela yiba nombulelo, uThixo uyazazi izinto ezikuxhalabisayo, kodwa uyavuyiswa kukwazi ukuba unombulelo ngazo zonke iintsikelelo akunika zona mihla le.
Nasi isivakalisi esithi Kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu xa ufuna ukucela umyeni, ukuze ngemini yakho uThixo akukhaphe kwaye akusikelele, kuyo yonke into oyenzayo kwaye usebenzise zonke izipho zakho kunye nokulunga kwakho kwintlalontle yomtshato kunye nosapho. Umthandazo uthi:
Isalathiso semixholo
umthandazo womyeni
Nkosi, Wena owazi iintliziyo kwaye ukhangela ubunzulu bomphefumlo ngamnye, namhlanje ndifuna ukukubuza umyeni wam, othandwa kakhulu yintliziyo yam, endikhethe yena ukuba ndibulele kuwe. Ngamana angaba liqabane lam kunye nomhlobo wam osenyongweni, endimkhethileyo kwaye ndamkhetha kumaphepha obomi bam.
Ndifuna ukukubuza intliziyo yakhe, mjonge ngobubele kwaye uphulule amanxeba akhe anzulu. Philisa inkumbulo yakhe yeenkumbulo ezibuhlungu kwaye umnike ulonwabo olutsha kwimilebe yakhe. Gcwalisa intliziyo yakho ngothando, ukuze amazwi akho, izijekulo zakho zidlulisele kuthi thina abasecaleni kwakho inkampani kunye nokhuseleko esiludinga kakhulu.
Yomeleza izandla zakho ukuze umsebenzi wakho ufanelekile kwaye ulungile, zikhokele iingcinga zakho ukuze amanyathelo akho asikelelwe. Musa ukuwasusa amehlo akho kwiintsuku zakhe, ukuze azive ethandwa kakhulu Nguwe. Mtsalele ngakuMthombo woThando Lwakho, ukuba ukude; mgcine esondele kakhulu kuwe, ukuba sele ebambelele ezithandweni zakho.
Thatha isandla sakhe kwaye umkhokele yonke imihla ukuze, njengotata nomyeni, abe nokuthembeka kwimithetho yakho kwaye ubukho bakhe kanye buvuselela amandla, inkalipho kunye nokhuseleko.
Ndicela ukuba usapho lwakhe luguqukele kuye ukuze lufumane inkxaso nesikhokelo, amandla kunye noncedo kuyo nayiphi na imeko.
Ngamana abantwana bethu bangafumana kuye umzekelo ogqibeleleyo wothando nokhuseleko. Ukuba ezingalweni zakhe bafunda ukubaluleka komsebenzi kunye nokuthembeka, kwaye ngamazwi akhe basela ukunyaniseka kunye noxanduva.
Sikelela umsebenzi wakho nezandla ezingadinwayo umhla nezolo. Kwanga zonke iindlela zakho zingasikelelwa kwaye ndinga, njengomfazi, ndifumane uthando lwenyani nolungunaphakade.
Ndinike ukukwazi ukuqonda nokuyithanda, ngaphandle kokuzama ukuyitshintsha, kunokuba ndiyixabise. Ukuba ulungisa ngobulumko aze ahambe ecaleni kwakhe ehlonipha ubuntu bakhe kunye nokwahluka kwakhe.
Nkosi yam, yanga ndingamthanda umyeni wam kwaye yonke imihla ndimkhokele ngemithandazo yam ukuya esiphelweni sethu, esiseZulwini, apho uthando luya kuba ngunaphakade. Ngamana angafumana kuye umthombo wothando, intliziyo yakhe ingaphazanyiswa kwaye iintliziyo zethu zingadibana ngesingqi esinye. Ukuba abo babelana nwethu ubomi, ubone kuthi ubuhle boThando lukaTHIXO ebomini bethu. Amen.
Ukususela ngoku makuthandazelwe indoda gcwalisa ubomi bomtshato ngamandla kwaye wenze ubudlelwane bomtshato ube ngumthombo wobabalo. Kwaye ngokuphindaphinda lo mthandazo yonke imihla luphawu lokuvuya, uthando kunye nokuhanjiswa kweqabane lakho.