Kumele sikubalule ukuthi ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngemikhuleko kuzomele sazi ukuthi luyini uthando nokuthi lusho ukuthini ezimpilweni zabantu.
Nakuba kuwumuzwa omsulwa futhi ungomunye wezinto ezibalulekile ezikhona, singawuqaphela ngomlando ngezindlela ezihlukene, futhi indlela eyinhloko ingaba ngombukiso omkhulu wothando, okuwukuthi lapho uNkulunkulu ethumela indodana yakhe ukuba izosifela futhi. Yini enye ebonisa ukuthi lesi senzo esikhulu nokuzidela.
Ngakho-ke, lolu hlobo lokuthinta okwenze isintu sikhonjiswe njengomunye wemizwa emihle ongayizwa. Futhi, uma kuziwa othandweni Akukhona ngempela ebudlelwaneni njengase- umusho wesizinda, njengoba kunezindlela eziningi zothando esingazizwa futhi esinye sezigaba zomlingo kungaba ukuba nomntwana.
Ngale ndlela, labo abanezingane bayazi ukuthi kuyisenzakalo esiyingqayizivele. Abanye bavele baluzwe lolu thando oluhle kakhulu olubhekiswe maqondana nesihlobo (abazali, omalume, izingane zakwabo, abazukulu) ngamafuphi, ngalokhu bangathi okubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukuba nakho futhi uzizwe ngendlela elula kubantu. Ngokungenhla singakuqinisekisa lokho yebo kubalulekile ukuthandaza othandweni, njengoba kuwumuzwa wendawo yonke.
Inkomba yokuqukethwe
Iyini imithandazo yothando?
Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, kunemithandazo eminingi ekhona kulokhu ngakho-ke, kulesi senzakalo, sizokunikeza kuphela eminye yale mithandazo, ongayisebenzisa ngokukholwa okukhulu kakhulu.
KuJude oNgcwele
Unamandla Saint John, wena owawunekhono elingaka futhi waziwa njengosanta ongumvikeli wokunqoba othandweni, ngisize ngingene futhi ngihlale emicabangweni nasemizweni emihlanu ka (igama lomuntu), sengathi angaba namehlo kimi kuphela. (igama lakho), ungayeki ukucabanga ngami; ngithande, ukuthi ingqondo yakho nenhliziyo yakho kungokwami kuphela. Nokuthi uma ephuma eceleni kwami, angabikho ukuthula okungekho, okubuyela kimi. Makube njalo.
Ekugcineni, Kufanele uthandaze izivumokholo ezintathu, oBaba Wethu abathathu kanye noMariya Ongcwele abathathu. Ngokuqhubekayo futhi njalo nokugcina ukuhleleka okufanayo.
Kunkulunkulukazi Wothando
O! Unkulunkulukazi omkhulu wothando, wena oncenga ngomusa ezinhliziyweni zabantu abafayo, nginxusa ukukhanya kwakho ukuze (igama lomuntu) ahlale eceleni kwami ukuze ajabulele phakade ndawonye. Ngokufanayo, ukuthi ngamandla akho othando olungapheli uletha (igama lomuntu) eduze kwami maduze.
Ukwenza umkhuleko oshiwoyo, kufanele ube phambi kwe isithombe somuntu okubhekiswe kuye ngekhandlela elibomvu elikhanyayo futhi zonke izibani zicishiwe.
kuJesu
Ngiyakuthanda Nkosi Jesu, ngiyakholwa ngiyakuqaphela, Ngiyakudumisa ngiyakudumisa, Phambi kwakho Jesu wami olungileyo, Namuhla ngiyeza ngiyakuncenga, Ngisize kulobu buhlungu bothando.
Namuhla lapho inhliziyo yami ikhala yopha igazi, lapho ngizizwa njengesidalwa esinebhadi, lapho ngisho nomoya ungikhohlisa, Wena Nkosi yami uyabona konke ngami.
Ngokwazi engikucabangayo nalokho engikuzwayo, angeke ngikufihlele lutho, ungumqondisi wami, Nkulunkulu wami noMsindisi wami, Lalela ubizo lwami, Yenza (sisho igama lomuntu esimbeka emthandazweni) ungithande futhi, Ukuze sikwazi ukusindisa. ubuhlobo bethu nokuthi akukho lutho futhi akekho ophazamisa. Oh Nkosi Yami!
Ngisize ngiqonde ukuthi lo muntu akufanele yini abe empilweni yami, uma ubona ukuthi akungilungele, futhi kuwe kufanele ngilandele indlela yami ngedwa, Ngisize ngingaphikisi futhi inhliziyo yami ivume okwenzekayo, ukuthi ubuhlungu noma usizi,
Ngiyakucela kuphela Nkosi ngisize kulesisikhathi, ungithathe ngamandla kube yintando yakho kungabi eyami, okwenziwa ngokulunga kwami.
Amen.
Vala amehlo akho futhi uthandaze uBaba Wethu ngokuzinikela okukhulu kanye nokuthembela kuBaba wethu waseZulwini.
Yini ebuzwa emithandazweni yothando?
Le mithandazo ayisetshenziselwa ukuthola uthando olusha kuphela noma ukwenza umuntu athandane. Baphinde bakhonze ukupholisa amanxeba abangelwa uthando, ukubuya komlingani, ukucela intethelelo, ukuzwana noma ukubonga ngothando osuvele uluthola.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi uma sikhuluma ngothando akulona olwabashadile kuphela, ngoba lokhu kusebenza nasemndenini wethu. Kukhona futhi abantu abaningi abasebenzisa ngisho i- umthandazo kuMoya oNgcwele kulawa macala.
Ngokunjalo, kungashiwo ukuthi miningi imisho ekhona, efana nethi umkhuleko kaMkhulu enye esetshenziswa kakhulu abantu ngesikhathi sesidingo.