Imishado ingaphezulu nje komkhosi olula yisenzo esingokomoya lapho abantu ababili benquma ukuhlanganisa izimpilo zabo phambi kukaNkulunkulu kanye nofakazi abaningi ngenhloso yokuphila nalowo muntu othandekayo nsuku zonke kuze kube yilapho ukufa kubahlukanisa.
Emhlabeni lapho isehlukaniso siyi-oda losuku kubalulekile ukutakula inani leqiniso lalesi senzo esihle nokuthi iyiphi indlela engcono yokukwenza ukwedlula ukwaba abanye Amavesi eBhayibheli emishado nemishado lokho kuzonikeza lowo mlingiswa wokomoya okushiwo yilesi senzo.
Njengamanje, igama elithi umshado selilahlekelwe ngendlela eyisimanga inani elinalo futhi kuthi izizukulwane ezintsha zibonakale zenza izivivinyo zokuphila nomshado futhi uma kungasebenzi zinquma ukuhlukanisa futhi zizame kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka kuze kube sezithola umshado ohloniphekile, ngokusho Izindlela zakho.
Kungakho ukuwabelana ngalezi ndima kuzokusiza kakhulu ukuze ukwazi ukwenza isinqumo esihlakaniphile futhi uma usuvele usemalungiselelweni lapho-ke ungathola amandla futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uNkulunkulu uvumelana naleyo nyunyana ngoba unguNkulunkulu wemindeni ujabule
Inkomba yokuqukethwe
1. Uthando lwanaphakade
UMathewu 19: 4-6 "Yena, ephendula wathi kubo: Anifundanga yini ukuthi owabenza ekuqaleni, owesilisa nowesifazane wabenza, wathi: Kungakho indoda izoshiya ubaba nonina, ihlanganyele nomkayo, futhi laba bobabili babe munye inyama? Ngakho abasebabili, kepha banyama-nye; ngakho-ke, lokho uNkulunkulu akuqoqile, ungahlukanisi umuntu.
Ubumbano lomshado luyisivumelwano esenziwa impilo yonke, lokho bekuyinjongo yomenzi kusukela ekuqaleni; noma indoda izoshiya isifuba somuzi wayo futhi, kanye nomkayo, umkakhe, bayoba entsha. Ukuba nyamanye kuyisibonelo sobunye ngazo zonke izindlela, ngakho-ke umshado kufanele ube njalo.
2. UNkulunkulu uzoba eceleni kwakho
IzAga 31:10;Owesifazane onobuhle, ubani ozomthola?
Ukuthola umuntu wesifazane omuhle kuyilungelo, kule ndima usitshela ukuthi unenhlanhla enkulu kangakanani yokuthi uthola umkakhe egcwele izimfanelo zokwabelana ngempilo yakhe futhi babe ndawonye bakhe umndeni. Owesifazane onobuhle, phakathi kokunye, osekela izimiso zeNkosi.
3. Ungakhohlwa ukucela usizo lukaNkulunkulu emshadweni
Efesu 5: 25-26 "Madoda, thandani omkenu, njengalokho noKristu walithanda ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yakhe, ukuba alingcwelise, emhlambululile ngokumhlanza ngamanzi ngezwi ”.
Lo mbhalo uyiseluleko esihlakaniphe kakhulu emadodeni, banesibopho sokuhlinzeka umshado wabo hhayi ngezinto ezibonakalayo kuphela kepha nezinto zokomoya, yibo okumele bathande ngokungagani futhi, ngokungangabazeki, bazothola okufanayo kusuka emuva, bayothandwa ngendlela yangempela neqiniso.
4. Mthande umlingani wakho
2 KwabaseKhorinte 6:14 “Ningaboshelwa ejokeni linye nabangakholwayo; ngoba kunakuhlanganyela kuni ubulungisa nokungalungi? Kunakuhlanganyela kuni ukukhanya nobumnyama na?
Kulabo abasenokungabaza okuthile ngokuthi kufanele ushade noma cha, kufanele ucabange ukuthi uma kuyijoka elingalingani ngakho-ke akufanele ujoyine impilo yakho kulowo muntu. Ijoka elingalingani kungenzeka ukuthi ugcine ukholo lwakho futhi umlingani wakho angalwenzi. Kuyiseluleko ukucabanga ngaphambi komshado.
5. UNkulunkulu uyawuthanda umshado
IZaga 5: 18-19 "Kwangathi intwasahlobo yakho ingabusiswa,
Futhi ujabule ngowesifazane wobusha bakho. Njengomuntu othandekayo nonomusa webhizi. Izinceku zakhe ziyanelisa ngaso sonke isikhathi, Futhi othandweni lwakho zihlale zikhululeka njalo ”.
Lapho uneminyaka embalwa yokushada, kunezinto eziningi ezifika engqondweni futhi ngalezo zikhathi nje ukuthi lo mbhalo unamandla amakhulu. Lowo wesifazane ohlanganise impilo yakhe kuwe, kulapho injabulo yakho ikhona, izinxibi zakhe kufanele zikukwanelise njalo, kuze kube yilapho uhlukana nokufa.
6. Vikela njalo uthando lwakho
UmShumayeli 4: 9-11 "Ababili bangcono kunoyedwa; Ngoba banokukhokhela kangcono umsebenzi wabo. Ngoba uma bewa, lowo uyophakamisa umlingani wakhe; kepha maye kuyena yedwa! ukuthi lapho ngiwa, akusekho owesibili ongakuthatha. Futhi uma amabili elala ndawonye, ​​afudumale; Futhi, kuzoshisa kanjani umuntu? ”
Kufika iphuzu empilweni yethu lapho sicabanga ngalokho esizokwenza ezinsukwini ezisele futhi iNkosi isishiyela imiyalo ecacile ezwini layo. Kufanele sikhathazeke ngokuthola umuntu ozohamba nawe impilo yakho yonke. Owesilisa ngowesifazane nowesifazane ngowesilisa.
7. UZimu uzokuvikela
KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19 "Bafazi, thobelani amadoda enu, njengoba kufanele eNkosini. Madoda, thandani omkenu, futhi ningabi nolaka kubo ”.
Ukuzithoba kowesifazane oshadile yinkinga ebonakala njengamanje ikhohliwe. Noma kuhlobene ne-machismo noma ubufazi, ukuba ngaphansi akusho ukuthi banikela ngamalungelo abo, kakhulu, kungcono isenzo sothando lapho kulingiswa khona isonto likaKristu.
8. UNkulunkulu usiza izithandani
Genesise 2:18 ".UJehova uNkulunkulu wathi: “Akukuhle ukuba umuntu ahlale yedwa; ngizamenzela umsizi onjengaye.
Kusukela ekuqaleni imindeni yayisenhliziyweni yeNkosi futhi le ndima eseBhayibhelini iyasikhumbuza. INkosi ayisifuni sisodwa ngokuphila kepha idale umuntu ikakhulukazi ngathi futhi konke kusezandleni zakhe. Akukuhle ukuthi umuntu abe yedwa futhi uzothola inkampani yempilo.
9. Thembela kuNkulunkulu emshadweni wakho
Efesu 5: 28 "Ngakho-ke nawo amadoda kufanele athande omkawo njengemizimba yawo. Lowo othanda umkakhe uzithanda yena. ”
Ngeke sithande umuntu ngaphandle kokuba sizithande kuqala. Lesi seluleko esinikezwe amadoda siyigugu, ngoba sisimema ukuba sithande kuqala kithi. Kute umuntfu longase atsandze umkakhe nangabe leyondvodza ingeke ititsandze kucala.
10. Yiba nokukholwa ngesikhathi somshado
UMarku 10: 7-8 "Ngaleso sizathu indoda izoshiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo futhi laba bobabili babe nyamanye; ngakho abasebabili, kodwa munye. ”
Ngeke besaba babili kepha bazoba munye, leli binzana linamandla amakhulu ngoba likhuluma nathi ngendlela ecacile neqondile mayelana nohlobo lobumbano okumele lube khona emshadweni. Akumele ucabangele umuntu ngamunye kepha manje ubuningi ngoba iBhayibheli lisho njalo futhi lokho kulungile.
11. Njalo yenza okusemandleni akho
AmaRoma 7: 2 "Ngoba umfazi oshadile ungaphansi komthetho kumyeni wakhe esaphila; kepha uma umyeni efa, ukhululiwe emthethweni wendoda. ”
Isivumelwano kuze kube sekufeni lapho uhlukana khona hhayi kuze kube yilapho kuvela ubunzima noma ubunzima. Kumele siwazise umshado njengoba unjalo: isikhungo esenziwe uNkulunkulu uqobo. Masisiqakathekise lesi sivumelwano futhi sisinikeze isimilo esifanele okufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi, sikhululwe kulesi sivumelwano kuphela lapho oyedwa kulaba ababili eya embusweni kaNkulunkulu.
12. Yiba nokukholwa ngesikhathi somshado
Thithu 2: 4-5 "Ukuthi bafundisa abesifazane abasebasha ukuthanda amadoda abo nezingane zabo, ukuhlakanipha, umsulwa, ukunakekela ikhaya labo, okuhle, ukuzithoba kubayeni babo Izwi likaNkulunkulu ningahlanjalazwa.
Intsha ibonakala ilahlekelwe yimigomo ebalulekile futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi ibuyise. Le ndima yeBhayibheli isimemo esicacile sokunikeza ukubaluleka kwalawo magugu njengokuqonda noma inhlonipho, kumele afundiswe futhi futhi aqiniswe ukuze izifundo zibe yisibusiso kubo bonke.
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