Kubudlelwane, uthando, intlonipho kunye nomnqweno wesini kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba usebudlelwaneni kwaye ubomi bakho bokwabelana ngesondo abuhambi kakuhle, ukuba uyafuna ukwandisa umnqweno wesini okanye ufuna isithandwa sakho sikufune. Lo mthandazo ulandelayo uya kukunceda uphucule ubudlelwane bakho kunye nokwanda komnqweno wesini weqabane lakho.
Isalathiso semixholo
Umthandazo wokuba umfazi andifune
Namhlanje ndilapha,
unqwenela oko (chaza igama lomfazi wakho)
ndinqwenele ngokwesondo,
kunye nengcamango yakhe
yiba kum nje,
ukuba yonke imihla ndineminqweno kuphela
kunye nothando kum.
Kubo bonke abangcwele kunye neengelosi
Namhlanje ndiza kukubuza apha
ndithandazeleni
andincede ke lomfazi
ndinqwenele ngokwesondo.
Loo maphupha okuba nam ngonaphakade,
oko kundivumela ukuba ndibe ngumntu omthandayo,
mnyamekele, mchukumise kwaye umkhusele.
Ndicela ukuba ufuna nje ukuhlala ebhedini yam,
msuse kuyo nayiphi na enye indoda
odibana naye ngoku,
uze uyizise kum, ekhayeni lam nasebomini bam.
Ukuba ingqondo yakho, umphefumlo kunye nomzimba
bafuna mna kuphela,
kunaye nabani na
zibone ungafuni nto yolo hlobo.
Kulungile ndikhona ukuze ndimhoye
kwaye umthande njengaye nabani na,
Yanga indoda yobomi bakho ibe ndim
njengokuba izakuba yedwa umfazi apha kum.
Yiza kum
kwaye unikezele njengabanye
ukwenzile ukuza kuthi ga ngoku
kwaye ukusukela ngoku
umnqweno wakho wesini kuphela kum.
Ukuba yonke imihla ufuna ukuba nam
kwaye uzinikele kum.
Ndiyathandaza namhlanje kuthixokazi wothando,
ukuze umnqweno wakho wesini
dibana nam namhlanje
nokuba aninako ukuba seluxolweni
ude ube nam
kwaye masizalisekise iminqweno nganye
Yintoni esengqondweni nasentliziyweni yakho?
Yiza kum namhlanje, ungaphumli
ude uzibone sele usendlini yam
nomandlalo wam, ukuba uhlale
khona ngonaphakade, ngenxa yeminqweno yakho
Isondo siya kuba nam ndedwa.
Ndiyathembisa ukumhoya
kwaye uthembeke ngonaphakade.
ukusuka nje ungena
ekhayeni lam nasebomini bam.
Kuyo yonke le minyaka siyishiye kulo mhlaba.
Amen.
Xa ukucengceleza umthandazo ukuba umfazi ufuna mna ngokwesondo?
Lo mthandazo kufuneka uwenze yonke imihla, ngakumbi kwi amaxesha apho unomnqweno othe chatha kwiqabane lakho kwaye kufuneka ucinge ngaye xa ucengceleza umthandazo. Kukwaluncedo kakhulu ukuyenza ngaphambi kokuba ulale, ukuze umnqweno wesini ubuyele emtshatweni wakho kwakhona.