Ukuthandazela umama ongasekhoyo Inokusinceda sifezekise intuthuzelo esiyifunayo ngexesha elibi kangaka.

Ukuphulukana nobomama yenye yeentlungu eziqatha umntu anokuziva ngenxa yokuba ezilahlekela kwinto eyamnikayo ubomi, owamkhokelayo kwaye wahamba naye ekukhuleni kwakhe. Kulusizi ekunzima ukuloyisa, kodwa ngoncedo lokomoya oluboniswa ngumthandazo, lunokwenzeka ngokukhawuleza. 

Lo ngumthandazo obalulekileyo ukuba, nokuba sicinga okanye sifuna ukungasifuni, inyani yeyokuba asazi ukuba ngowuphi umzuzu siziva isidingo sokwenza lo mthandazo.

Yiyo loo nto kukholo lwe-acatolic, kukho izivakalisi ezichaziweyo nezichanekileyo esinokubuyela kuzo nayiphi na imeko esikuyo. 

Ukuthandazela umama ongasekhoyo kuyenzelwe ntoni?

Ukuthandazela umama ongasekhoyo

Lo mthandazo unokuba neenjongo ezininzi, enye yazo kukuba ukwazi ukufumana embindini womthandazo, intuthuzelo esiyifunayo, enye injongo kwaye mhlawumbi enye efumana amandla ngakumbi kukuba sikwazi ukuseka unxibelelwano kunye nolunye uphawu, oku kusinika ukhuseleko lokuba kumnandi kwaye kunothando njengo mama, kukwindawo zasezulwini, ukuphumla ngoxolo kwaye nokonwaba Izibonelelo zokuba unobomi obulungileyo phambi koThixo. 

Enye injongo kukwazi ukubulela ulonwabo lokuba nomama kunye nokucela ukuphumla okungunaphakade. Oku kubalulekile kuba yindlela yokuziva siseluxolweni nathi ngokwazi ukuba imithandazo yethu yenza ukuba ilungu losapho lwethu lufumane ukukhanya ngaphaya ukufa.  

1) Imithandazo yomama oswelekileyo omfutshane

«Nkosi Yesu Kristu, uNyana kaThixo, owayefuna ukuba nomama emhlabeni, iNtombikazi enguMariya; jonga ngamehlo enceba kumkhonzi wakho uN…, ombize esifubeni sosapho lwethu.

Ngokuncenga kukaMariya oNgcwele waseGuadalupe, sikelelani uthando ebesoloko enalo emhlabeni, kwaye nenza, nisezulwini, ukuqhubeka nokusinceda. Thatha phantsi kwenkuselo yakho ngenceba abo kuye kwafuneka abashiye emhlabeni. Wena uhleliyo ulawula ngonaphakade kanaphakade. 

Amen. "

Ngokwesiqhelo, izivakalisi zomama oswelekileyo ngokufutshane zezona zintle.

Okwangoku sinemodeli ezininzi zokuthandaza kwaye, phakathi kweendlela ezininzi zokukhetha, zikhona izivakalisi ezifutshane ekulula ukuzazi kwaye unokwenza ntoni ngamaxesha onke.

Kwiimeko zokuziva ulilolo, ngamanye amaxesha, sifuna ukuba sodwa kwaye sichithe ii-omentos zethu ukukhumbula umntu esimthandayo, ngala maxesha kubalulekile ukuba sikwazi ukukhulisa omnye wale mithandazo ongadingi xesha lininzi kodwa onokusinceda soyise usizi kwaye ufumane uxolo noxolo olunokufunyanwa kuphela kwicala likaThixo.  

2) Ukuthandazela umama ongasekhoyo

«Hayi mama wam, ndifuna ukuyithetha loo nto
Ubungumkhokeli kunye nentlahla yobomi bam,
Ndiyabulela kuwe kweli lizwe,
Enkosi kuwe osinike oko,
ndiyabulela kuwe osifundisileyo,
Enkosi kuwe siyiyo,
umkile, waya ezulwini,
Uyifezekisile injongo yakho ebomini,
umncedile ummelwane nabasweleyo,
uhlala unika ingqalelo kwaye uyazi yonke into,
Ungazilibala njani izinto ezintle, ilizwi lakho, ukuhleka kwakho ...
Namhlanje Bawo ndiyakucela
ngokuthobeka okukhulu, phulaphula umthandazo wam
kwaye ulibazele indlebe izwi lemithandazo yam,
Fundisa umama indlela,
Ukuze abe secaleni kwakho,
Mthathe uyokuphumla ebukumkanini bamazulu.
Umama, intyatyambo engcwabeni lakhe iyabuna
Iinyembezi kwimemori yakho ziyavela
ukuthandazela umphefumlo wakho, uThixo uyamkelwa.
Ukukhanya okungapheliyo makukhanye, makaphumle ngoxolo.
Amen. "

Ngaba uwuthanda lomthandazo onamandla wokuba umama ongasekhoyo?

Oomama zizilwanyana ezigcwele ubumnandi nothando eziya kuhlala iqinisekisa intlalo-ntle yabantwana babo. Umzekelo ongumama ongumzekelo ngunina ofanayo weNkosi yethu uYesu Krestu, ukuzaliswa nguMoya oyiNgcwele owayekwazi ukuthanda nokumamkela unyana wakhe.

Las Oomama benza icandelo elibalulekileyo lomdiliya womntu ngamnye Kwaye xa le nxalenye nomdali uThixo eshiya isithuba esigcwaliswe kuphela ngomthandazo esivelisa umbono wokuba yena ngokwakhe ulandelayo kuThixo ekuboneleleni abantwana bakhe. 

3) Umthandazo kumama wam ezulwini

«Owu bawo, kuphela intuthuzelo kumaxesha angapheliyo eentlungu.
Sililela ukungabikho kwakho, mama othandekayo, ngalo mzuzu wosizi,

Intlungu engaka, ukubandezeleka okungaka, ushiya into enkulu entliziyweni yethu,

Mnike iNkosi, uxolelo lwezono zakho, ukuba adlule kumnyango wokufa,

Nandipha ukukhanya kwakho kunye noxolo lwanaphakade.

Uthixo uSomandla, Sibeka ezandleni zakho zothando. KuMama wethu, owabizelwa kobu bomi ukukugcina ungenamntu. Mnike ukuphumla komphefumlo ngonaphakade. Umama, ndifuna ukuthi wawungumkhokeli kunye namandla angasentla,

Enkosi kuwe sikulo mhlaba, enkosi kuwe osinike oko,
Enkosi kuwe osifundisileyo, enkosi kuwe siyiyo,
Kwaye ndiyabulela kuwe ndiya kuhlala ndingumntu olungileyo oshiyekileyo, waya ezulwini,

Uwufezile umsebenzi wakho emhlabeni, unceda abanye kunye nabasweleyo,

Soloko unikela ingqalelo kwaye usazi yonke into, njengokutyeshela izinto ezininzi ezintle, ilizwi lakho, uncumo lwakho ...
Namhlanje Bawo, ndicela ngentobeko enkulu, yiva umthandazo wam

Ndibazele iindlebe kwilizwi lomthandazo wam, ndibonise indlela kumama,

Ukuba secaleni kwakho Nkosi, Mthathe uyokuphumla ebukumkanini bamazulu.
Umama, intyatyambo engcwabeni lakhe iyabuna, iinyembezi zakho ziyakhunjulwa
Umthandazo womphefumlo wakho, uThixo uyawufumana. Ngamana ukukhanya okungapheliyo kunokukukhanyisela, kwanga ungaphumla ngoxolo.
Amen.«

Siwuthanda kakhulu lo mthandazo kumama wam oswelekileyo ezulwini.

Umama ungumhlobo onokuya kuye nanini na, nokuba ungaba ngabantwana ababi kangakanani, oomama bahlala bevule iingalo ukwamkela abantwana babo.

Xa aba mama behlangana ezulwini, bahlala benothando kwaye bahlala bekulungele ukusiphulaphula, basincede kwaye baqhubeke nokusikhokela.

Emva kwayo yonke into sinokuqonda ukuba ayikho enye indawo ebhetele yokuba umama kunokuba kufutshane neNkosi enye uThixo uYise. 

Ndingawenza nini umthandazo?

Imithandazo inokwenziwa ngawo onke amaxesha.

Ayinyanzelekanga ukuba iphakamise izwi okanye ikhanyise amakhandlela, kodwa ukuze sikwazi ukuthandaza ngokusuk 'entliziyweni nokuba umthandazo unyanisekile. Ukongeza, konke kufuneka ube nokholo oluphilayo kwaye uphaphamele ukuba imithandazo yethu yiza apho kufuneka ziye khona.

Amakhandlela, indawo, ukuba siyayenza ngezantsi, ngelizwi eliphakamileyo okanye ezingqondweni zethu, ziinkcukacha kuphela esinokuzibona ngalo mzuzu, kodwa nakweyiphi na imeko imithandazo inokuhlala yenziwa ngamaxesha onke. 

Thandaza lo mthandazo kumama oswelekileyo ngothando olukhulu.

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