Imitshato ingaphezulu nje kombhiyozo olula, sisenzo somoya apho abantu ababini bathatha isigqibo sokumanyanisa ubomi babo phambi koThixo kunye namangqina amaninzi ngenjongo yokuhlala kunye nalo mntu umthandayo yonke imihla de ukufa Zahlule.

Kwilizwe apho uqhawulo-mtshato ulungelelwano losuku kubalulekile ukuba uhlengahlengise ixabiso lokwenyani lesi senzo sihle kwaye yeyiphi indlela engcono yokwenza kunokwabelana nabanye Iivesi zeBhayibhile zemitshato kunye nemitshato Oko kuyakunika umntu wokomoya ukuba isenzo sithetha oko.  

Iivesi zeBhayibhile zemitshato kunye nemitshato

Okwangoku, igama elithi umtshato liphulukene nalo ngendlela eyoyikisayo ixabiso elinalo kwaye ke ukuba izizukulwane ezitsha zibonakala ngathi zenza iimvavanyo zobomi ngomtshato kwaye ukuba akusebenzi bathatha isigqibo sokuqhawula umtshato kwaye bazame amaxesha ngamaxesha amaninzi de babe bafika kumtshato ofanelekileyo, ngokutsho Iikhrayitheriya zakho. 

Yiyo loo nto ukwabelana ngezi ndinyana kunokukunceda kakhulu ukuze ukwazi ukwenza isigqibo sobulumko kwaye ukuba sele ukwilungiselelo emva koko unokuthatha amandla kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uThixo uyavumelana naloo manyano kuba unguThixo weentsapho bonwabile 

1. Uthando lwanaphakade

UMateyu 19: 4-6

UMateyu 19: 4-6 "Uphendule ke wathi kubo: Anifundanga na ukuba ezo zinto wazenzayo kwasekuqaleni, wazenza umntu oyindoda kunye naye, wathi, Kungenxa yoko le nto indoda ishiya uyise nonina, ingene emfazini wayo, babe babini babe ngumfazi. inyama? Abasebabini, banyama-nye; ke ngoko, le yinto ayiqokelelweyo nguThixo, musa ukwahlulela umntu.

Umanyano lomtshato yipact eyenzelwe ubomi bonke, leyo yayiyinjongo yomyili kwasekuqaleni; okanye indoda iya kushiya esifubeni sekhaya layo, kunye nenkosikazi yayo, umfazi wayo, iya kuba ntsha. Ukuba nyama-nye ngumzekelo wobumbano ngazo zonke iindlela, ngoko ke umtshato mawubekho.

2. UThixo uza kuba ecaleni kwakho

IMizekeliso 31: 10

ImiZekeliso 31:10 "Ewe, mfazi ulungileyo, ngubani na oya kumfumana?

Ukufumana umfazi onesidima kulilungelo, kule ndima usixelela ukuba unethamsanqa lokuba afumane umfazi wakhe ezele ziimpawu zokwabelana ngobomi bakhe kunye kunye bakhe usapho. Umfazi onesidima, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ngulowo ugcina imilinganiselo yeNkosi. 

3. Ungalibali ukucela uncedo kuThixo emtshatweni

Kwabase-Efese 5: 25-26

Kwabase-Efese 5: 25-26 "Nina madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, njengokuba naye uKristu walithandayo ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yalo, ukuba alingcwalise, elihlambulule ngokuhlamba kwamanzi ngelizwi ”.

Esi sicatshulwa sesiluleko sobulumko kakhulu kumadoda, anoxanduva lokubonelela umtshato wabo kungekuphela ngezinto zokwenyama kodwa nezinto zokomoya, ngabo kufuneka bathande ngaphandle kwemeko kwaye, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, bayakufumana okufanayo kwa ngasemva, baya kuthandwa ngendlela eyiyo kwaye iyinyani. 

4. Thanda iqabane lakho

2 kwabaseKorinte 6:14

2 kwabaseKorinte 6:14Musani ukunxulumana nabolunye uhlobo, abangakholwayo ke; kuba unabuphi ubuhlobo? Ubulungisa ngokungekho sikweni? Kunabudlelane buni na ke ukukhanya nobumnyama?

Kwabo basenamathandabuzo athile malunga nokuba bayatshata okanye bangatshati, kufuneka ucinge ukuba ukuba yidyokhwe engalinganiyo akufuneki ukuba udibanise ubomi bakho nomntu. Idyokhwe yokungalingani inokuba ugcine ukholo lwakho kunye neqabane lakho lingayenzi. Ingcebiso ukuthathela ingqalelo ngaphambi komtshato. 

5. UThixo uyawuthanda umtshato

Iivesi zeBhayibhile zemitshato kunye nemitshato

IMizekeliso 5: 18-19 "Usikelele umthombo wakho
Kwaye wonwabe kunye nomfazi wobutsha bakho. Njengomntu othandekayo nonobubele webhizi. Iimbophelelo zakhe zikwanelisa ngamaxesha onke, kwaye eluthandweni lwakho hlala uziva njalo ”.

Xa uneminyaka embalwa utshatile, zininzi izinto ezifika engqondweni nakwelo xesha, esi sicatshulwa sinamandla amangalisayo. Umfazi obudibanise nobomi bakhe kuwe, kulapho ulonwabo lwakho lukhona, ii-caress zakhe kufuneka zihlale zikwanelisa, de uhlukane nokufa. 

6. Soloko ukhusela uthando lwakho

Iivesi zeBhayibhile zemitshato kunye nemitshato

INtshumayeli 4: 9-11 "Ababini balunge ngakumbi kunomnye; Kuba bawuhlawula ngcono umsebenzi wabo. Kuba xa bathe bawa, omnye unokuphakamisa iqabane lakhe; kodwa yeha ke kuye yedwa! ukuba xa ndiwile, akuyi kubakho wesibini wokuyichola. Kanjalo, nokuba babini balala kunye, baya kushushuzela omnye komnye; ngaphezulu, kuza kutshisa njani na?

Kuza inqanaba ebomini bethu apho sicinga malunga nento esiza kuyenza kwiintsuku eziseleyo kwaye iNkosi isishiyela imiyalelo ecacileyo kwilizwi layo. Kufuneka sizikhathaze ngokufumana umntu oza kuhamba nawe ubomi bakho bonke. Indoda yindoda kwaye umfazi yindoda. 

7.UThixo uya kukukhusela

KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19

KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19 "Nina bafazi, walulameleni awenu amadoda, njengoko kufanele abaseNkosini. Madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, musani ukuba rhabaxa kubo ”.

Ukuzithoba kumfazi otshatileyo ngumbandela okhoyo ngoku ukuba ulibale. Okanye ayinanto yakwenza ne-machismo okanye ubufazi, ukuba phantsi ayithethi ukuba banikela ngamalungelo abo, kancinci, kulisenzo sothando apho icawe kaKristu ilingiswayo. 

8. UThixo uyanceda abantu abatshatileyo

IGenesis 2:18

IGenesis 2:18Wathi uThixo uThixo, Akulungile ukuba umntu abe yedwa; Ndiza kwenza umncedi oza kumlungela ”.

Ukususela ekuqaleni iintsapho zazisentliziyweni yeNkosi kwaye le ndinyana ibhayibhile iyasikhumbuza. INkosi ayifuni ukuba sisodwa ebomini kodwa usidalele umntu ingakumbi kuthi kwaye yonke into isezandleni zakhe. Akulungile ukuba umntu abe yedwa kwaye uyakufumana inkampani yobomi. 

9. Thembela ngoThixo emtshatweni wakho

Efese 5: 28

Efese 5: 28 "Ngokunjalo nawo amadoda afanele abathande abafazi bawo njengemizimba yawo. Lowo umthandayo umkakhe, uyazithanda.

Asinakuthanda mntu ngaphandle kokuba sizithande kuqala. Eli cebiso linikezwe amadoda lixabisekile, kuba lisimema ukuba sithande iziqu zethu. Akukho mntu unokuthanda umfazi wakhe ukuba loo ndoda ayinakuze izithande kuqala. 

10. Yiba nokholo ngexesha lomtshato

UMarko 10: 7-8

UMarko 10: 7-8 "Kungenxa yoko le nto indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye. Abasebabini, kodwa banye.

Abasayi kuba babini kodwa baya kuba babini, eli binzana linamandla amakhulu kuba lithetha nathi ngendlela ecacileyo nengqalileyo ngohlobo lomanyano ekufuneka lubekho emtshatweni. Akufuneki ucinga ngomntu ngamnye kodwa ngoku isininzi kuba iBhayibhile iyatsho kwaye kulungile.

11. Soloko usenza konke okusemandleni akho

AmaRoma 7: 2

AmaRoma 7: 2 "Kuba umfazi otshatileyo uphantsi komthetho endodeni yakhe lo gama isadla ubomi; ke ukuba indoda ithe yafa, ukhululekile emthethweni wendoda.

Umgaqo de ube uza kufa uyahlulele kwaye ungabikho de kufike iingxaki okanye ubunzima. Kufuneka siwuxabise umtshato njengoko unjalo: iziko elidalwe nguThixo ngokwakhe. Masixabise lo mnqophiso kwaye siwunike umlinganiso ofanelekileyo ofanele ube nawo, sikhululekile kuphela kulo mnqophiso xa omnye wabo babini esiya kubukumkani bukaThixo. 

12. Yiba nokholo ngexesha lomtshato

KuTito 2: 4-5

KuTito 2: 4-5 "Ukuba bafundise abafazi abasebancinane ukuba bathande abayeni babo, nabantwana babo, babe nobukrelekrele, benyulu, baligcina ikhaya, belungile, bawathobele amadoda abo, ilizwi likaThixo musani ukunyelisa.

Ulutsha lubonakala ngathi luphulukene neenqobo ezibalulekileyo kwaye kuyimfuneko kubo ukuba babuye kwakhona. Esi sicatshulwa sebhayibhile sisimemo esicacileyo sokunika ukubaluleka kwezo zithethe ezinjengobulumko okanye intlonipho, kufuneka zifundiswe kwakhona kwaye zomelezwe ukuze ikhosi ibe yintsikelelo kubo bonke. 

Ngaba uzithanda zonke iivesi zethu zemitshato kunye nemitshato?

Funda kwakhona eli nqaku Iindinyana ezili-13 zokukhuthaza, Iivesi ezili-11 zothando lukaThixo y Iivesi zeBhayibhile zabaselula abangamaKatolika.