Akunakuphepheka ukuba le ngxaki ekugqibeleni iyakufikelela kulwalamano. Into ebihleli iyibhedi yeeroses namhlanje ichaphazeleka kukudinwa kukulwa, umona, ukuhlala rhoqo kunye nokungabikho koqhakamshelwano lomzimba. Nantso ke Umtshato wesibini ukuthintela iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ukuba zichaphazele ubomi bakho. Siza kufundisa ngokulandelayo.
Ubudlelwane buza kuhlala bunamaxesha amanqam, isitshixo kukwazi ukubahlula. Ngesizathu esithile, ngaba ubudlelwane buyabanda kwaye inzala iyancipha? Ngaba ukwanga kunye nokwabelana ngesondo akuqhelekanga kunangaphambili? Zola !!! Funda ukuba ungayiphucula njani le meko ngomthandazo wesibini.
Olona khetho lufanelekileyo lokusombulula ukungavisisani kuhlala i-DR edumileyo (Ingxoxo ngobuhlobo). Ke ... uyazi? Sukuyiphepha! Ukubeka amakhadi etafileni licebo elihle lokuhlengahlengisa ubudlelwane. Yenza konke okusemandleni ukuphumelela umlo, iinzame kufuneka zivela kuni nobabini kwaye niya kukwazi ukoyisa eli nqanaba. Isitshixo kukusebenzisa "ingxaki" egameni lakho ukukhula, ukukhula, kunye nokuqinisa ngakumbi ubudlelwane.
Uncedo olongezelelekileyo onokuqiniseka ngalo luvela ezulwini, ngokomoya. Chaza umthandazo wesi sibini ukomeleza umanyano, uphephe imilo kwaye uphilise amanxeba okuthandana okanye owomtshato. Yiba nokholo olukhulu kwaye ugcine iinyanga okanye iminyaka yobomi neqabane lakho.
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Umthandazo wesibini - utata ka-Antonio Marcos
“Nkosi Yesu, ndiyakucela ukuba usikelele intliziyo yam nentliziyo ye… (Igama lendoda okanye lenkosikazi)… Sikelela ubomi bethu bangaphakathi ngothando, imbeko, imvisiswano, ukwaneliseka nolonwabo. Ndifuna ukuba ngcono yonke imihla, ndincede kubuthathaka bethu ukuze singangeni ekuhendweni kwaye sizikhulule kokubi. Thela ubabalo lwakho kusapho lwethu, kwikhaya lethu, kwigumbi lethu lokulala kwaye ubeke amehlo akho kwigama lethu, ukuze isicwangciso sobomi bethu sizalisekiswe, kuba siyakuthembeka kuwe. Sifuna ukuba iNkosi ithathe inxaxheba kumanyano lwethu kwaye sihlale emakhayeni ethu. Sigcine kuthando olunyulu noluyinyani kwaye zonke iintsikelelo emtshatweni zibenathi. Egameni loYise, loNyana, loMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen!
Umthandazo wokomeleza umanyano lwesibini.
“Nkosi, sabelane ngobomi bethu njengesibini esitshatileyo, umyeni nenkosikazi; ukuba sizinike okona kulungileyo kuthi, emzimbeni nasemoyeni; ukuba samkela kwaye sithandana njengoko sinobutyebi kunye nokusikelwa umda esinako.
Ngamana singakhula kunye, sibe yindlela yomnye nomnye; Masithwalisane imithwalo, sisikhuthaza ukuba sihlale sikhula eluthandweni. Masibe sonke omnye komnye: iingcinga zethu ezibalaseleyo, ezona zenzo zethu zibalaseleyo, owona mzuzu wethu ulungileyo kunye nolona saziso lwethu lubalaseleyo. Masifumane eyona nkampani ilungileyo. Nkosi, ngamana uthando esiliphilayo malube ngamava akho amakhulu uthando lwakho. Ngamana iNkosi ingakhula ngokuthandeka kunye nokutsala ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba sibe banye: ekucingeni, ekusebenzeni nasekuhlaleni kunye. Ukuze kwenzeke oku, uphakathi kwethu. Ke siya kuba ngabathandi banaphakade. Amen
Umthandazo wokuba izibini zilwe okanye zilwe
“Thandaza: (ubeke iqabane lakho okanye umntu omthandayo phambi koThixo)
Nkosi Yesu, buyisela umtshato womtshato wabantu abatshatileyo abazahluleyo nabafuna oku kubuyiselweyo!
Simahla, ngamandla egazi lakho kunye nokuthandazelwa kweNtombi Enyulu uMariya, kubo bonke abanesifo sokukrexeza kunye nokulahlwa kwabafazi babo!
Ndwendwela intliziyo yalowo umyeni okanye inkosikazi yakhe ekude kwabo sele bohlukene kwindlu enye. Nje utshatile ukhululekile esele ucinga ngokuzahlula!
Sikhulule iNkosi kuwo onke amandla esono, okanye kulowo ungendawo ocinezelayo aze ahlule into etyala intiyo, ingqumbo, iintlungu!
Simahla amandla egazi lakho kubantu abatshatileyo, abathi ngenxa yobuthathaka bokomoya, babethwe ngoochwephesha, oomilingo, abenzi bemilingo, oosomajukujuku, i-voodoo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zamandla afihliweyo, bazihlambe ngegazi labo lokukhulula!
Uphilisa amanxeba kubudlelwane: uphawu olunzima lwamagama, ukuthotywa, ubundilele bomzimba, ukukrexeza, ubuxoki, ukunyelisa, ukungaqondi kunye namanye amanqaku.
Ukuphilisa amanxeba obuntwana kunye nokufikisa okunefuthe kulwalamano, olukhokelela kolu hlobo lokwahlulwa: umvandedwa, amanxeba osapho awenzayo.
Izibini eziphilisayo ezahlukaniswe lukhetho olubi lwamaqabane abo! Utshatile abantu abagula kakhulu ziingqondo, ukutenxa kubuntu kunye nesini, kwaye wafumanisa kuphela emva komtshato.
Philisa abo batshata ngaphambi kwexesha, ngaphandle kokukhula ngokomoya nangokweemvakalelo ukuba ujamelane nobudlelwane nobabini! Sicela konke oku egameni likaYise, lo Nyana noMoya oyiNgcwele, amen!
Umthandazo wokuba isibini siphilise emtshatweni
“Emandleni eGama likaYesu Krestu sign (umqondiso womnqamlezo), ndithandaza ngokuchasene neepateni ezinzulu zokungonwabi kusapho lwam.
Ndithi HAYI kwaye ndibanga iGazi likaYesu ekunyanzelweni kweqabane ngalinye, nakwindlela nganye yokuchaswa komtshato.
Ndiyayeka inzondo, ukunqwenela ukufa, iminqweno emibi kunye neenjongo ezimbi kubudlelwane bomtshato.
Ndigqibile konke ukudlulisela ubundlobongela, konke ukuziphindezela, ukungaziphathi kakuhle, konke ukunganyaniseki nenkohliso.
Ndiyayeka ukudlulisa nakuphi na ukudluliswa okungathandekiyo okuthintela lonke ulwalamano olungapheliyo.
Ndiyazilahla zonke iingxwabangxwaba zosapho, uqhawulo-mtshato kunye nokuqaqadeka kweentliziyo zabo ngegama likaYesu (umqondiso womnqamlezo).
Ndiyiphelisa yonke imvakalelo yokuvaleleka kumtshato ongonwabisiyo kunye nokuziva ulilolo kunye nokusilela.
Bawo, ngoYesu Krestu, ndixolele izalamane zam ngazo zonke iindlela abanokuthi bahlazise ngazo iSakramente loMtshato.
Nceda undizisele imitshato emininzi ebandakanyeke kakhulu kusapho lwam, izele luthando (agape), ukuthembeka, ukuthembeka, ububele kunye nentlonipho. Amen!
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