Umthandazo onamandla ulibale uthando kwaye uqhubeke. Xa unamathandabuzo malunga nokuba ubudlelwane bufanele buqhubeke, jonga imiqondiso kwaye wazi ukuba lixesha lokuba uyeke olu thando okanye hayi. Ukuba isiphelo lolona khetho lubalaseleyo, yenza Umthandazo wokulibala uthando le yindlela entle yokuqhubekeka. Ngaba uyadlula kule nto? Ngaba uyafuna ukucima umntu omthandayo ebomini bakho? Ke ngoku jonga lo mthandazo unamandla wokubeka lo mnqweno kwixesha elidlulileyo.
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Umthandazo onamandla ulibale uthando kwaye uqhubeke
Xa usebenzisa umthandazo ukulibala uthando
ukuba kunqande ukubanjwa kwiimeko ezinobungozi Ayikufanelanga kwaphela, sidwelise iimpawu ezisixhenxe ezibonisa ukuba kungcono ukuqhubeka.
- Xa uziva ungakhathalelwanga, ungakhathalelwanga okanye uhlala wedwa;
- Xa imeko iphela ikubangela ube buhlungu ngaphezu kovuyo;
- Xa ubudlelwane buyakuthintela ukukhula kunye nokuba ungubani;
- Xa uziva uphelelwe ngumzimba nangokweemvakalelo;
- Xa usamkela ubudlelwane kuba usoyika ukuba wedwa;
- Xa ungasathethi kwakhona, akukho mnandi okanye ukuhleka kunye;
- Xa uziva ngathi ubambe into, kufuneka uyikhulule.
Iingcebiso ukoyisa ngaphambi kokuba uthandaze ukulibala uthando
Ukucinga ukuba emva kwesi siphelo sisiphelo (ukuba akusayi kubakho luthando) kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Intlungu inokuba namandla kwaye ibinzana elinokuthi lijikeleze entlokweni yakho yile: "Andinakulibala." Kungabonakala ngathi le ntlungu, ethi ngamanye amaxesha ibe yeyomzimba, ayidluli, kuba kunzima ukuyilibala, kungoko enye indlela elungileyo inokuba yenza umthandazo wokulibala uthando.
Ukuba emva komzuzwana iintlungu zisaqhubeka kwaye ukuba olu lwalamano alunamphefumlo, lixesha lokuba uqhubeke nobomi ngeyona ndlela. Lahla unxibelelwano olukhoyo phakathi kwakho nomntu wakho wangaphambili, unike ingqondo kwaye unqwenela ukuba eli khonkco liphulwe kwaye uthandaze ukulibala uthando. Elona cebiso lililo kukuvula intliziyo yakho kwaye ufumane omnye umnqweno. Baninzi abantu abafana nawe abafuna ukulibala malunga nokuchotshelwa kwakudala, dibana nabantu abatsha, babe nolwalamano olutsha kwaye abakwazi.
Kodwa uyifaka njani inkanuko entliziyweni esasebenza? Ingcebiso eluncedo kakhulu kukuba ithi enye okanyeIsibonelelo sokulibala uthando nokusebenzisa amandla okucinga, kuba ukufuna amandla. Kukwayimfuneko ukuvula intliziyo yakho ukuba abantu bangene ebomini bakho, kwaye umthandazo onamandla unokuba luncedo kakhulu.
Uqinisekile ukuba ufuna ukulibala, akunjalo? Emva koko thandaza, ucinge ngengqondo, ukhuphe konke okubuyisela iinkumbulo zolo thando lwangaphambili kwaye uthandaze ukulibala uthando.
Umthandazo onamandla wokulibala uthando ngegama likaYesu
Ukukunceda, thandaza imithandazo ukulibala uthando lokulandela ngokholo oluninzi.
“Bawo, egameni leNkosi uYesu Krestu, ndiyikhulule intliziyo yam kule mvakalelo imbi inyanzelisa ukuvalelwa kum. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngenceba yakho yothando namandla amakhulu, ndiyabulela kwangoko ngenkululeko nenkululeko yakho. Amen kwaye ndiyabulela kuThixo.
Umthandazo wokulibala uthando kunye nokufumana omtsha
“Nkosi, ndenze ndiphuphe iphupha elitsha (lokuba nothando olutsha) kwaye ulenze libe yinyaniso kangangoko ndifuna. Philisa la manxeba entliziyo yam, kuba iphethwe sisithukuthezi nentlungu. Buyisa uxolo lwam namandla am, kunye novuyo kunye nethemba lokuba ilanga likhanya yonke imihla, kodwa yonke imihla, ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ndincede ndikhumbule ukuba ubusuku bubumnyama, kungcono ukubona iinkwenkwezi ezintle esibhakabhakeni kwaye undenze mtsha, Nkosi. Susa kum zonke izinto ezimbi emphefumlweni wam ubeke yonke into endaweni yayo, kuba andifuni kuncama kwaye ndingavumeli ndincame ukonwaba. Ndinike ukhuseleko lwakho olungenasiphelo, unguKumkani noBawo, ndinike izandla zakho zesisa ukuze ndibabambe ngokuqinileyo, kuba ndiyakuthanda. Amen.
Umthandazo onamandla wokulibala uthando
“Nkosi, mamela umthandazo wam kwaye uphulaphule isicelo esidandathekisayo sentliziyo yam eyaphalalayo esweleyo ngenxa yokulahlekelwa luthando endandisibulela. Okwalo mzuzu, Nkosi, ubomi bam bubonakala ngathi buyanyamalala njengomsi kwaye nomzimba wam uvutha njengengca eyomileyo. Ndaphelelwa yindlala ndinxaniwe kwaye ndincwina nje ziintlungu nokubandezeleka, ngathi yintaka enesithukuthezi kwisebe eliphezulu lomthi owomileyo. Kukuwe kuphela, Ndikhoyo, apho ndinokufumana intuthuzelo. Kukuthando lwakho kuphela apho ndinokufumana inceba kunye nokukhululeka ukunyamezelana nentlungu. Ukukhanya kwam akuphumeli, ke kukuhlisiwe kukukhanya kwakho; Wanga ungaphela umphefumlo wam, kodwa yomelela ngenceba yakho. ukuba ukungatyhafi kwam akuzange kundidinise endleleni, kodwa kuthatyathelwe indawo yingcingo yolonwabo oya kuthi uyilinde ekupheleni kwendlela entsha. Kuba kuwe kuphela intuthuzelo kunye noxolo sonke silindele. Amen.
Ngoku ukuba ufundile ukwenza Umthandazo wokulibala uthando, ujonge: